My grandfather just pass away yesterday nitex at ard 10pm.. My mum called me at ard 9pm and says that my grandfather most probably will not be able to be alive and doctors are trying their best to revive him as his heartbeat had already stop... My mum ask me to come down asap to see my grandfather one last time.. When I heard the news, I quickly changed and ask my hubby to drive me to Alexandra Hospital.. My hubby, hold my hands tightly, ask me not to worry my grandfather will be alright... I pray very hard nth will happen to him..
But, on my way at the expressway, my mum called me and say" where are you now?".. I say " I on my way le.. reaching soon, why??".. There is a sec of silence, den my mum replied" Gong Gong die le.. faster come and see him one last time"... I burst into tears... When I reach the hospital, I saw my grandfather lying motionlessly, I heart breaks.. I says"Gonggong, dun slp le la, dun slp le.. I am here to see you.. I am here.." Pls wake up and take a look at me.. pleasseeee......" I ask my mum, wad happen.. Why?? My grandfather do not have any illness ot disease.. What happen?? My mum dunno the reason as well,, Says muz let doctor operate his body and see what wrongs wid the internal organs,, The real reason behind his death..
I tot of visiting my grandparents next week, and called my grandfather a mth ago, and he still sounds very healthy and fine.. I told him I will visit him soon as I was busy wid work and family.. And my hubby is leaving to australia for work soon.. So when he is back we will go and visit him.. HE is ok wid it, says let him before hand so he can be at home to wait for us.. But, now i got no chance to talk to him anymore.. =( My Aunt says he did not suffer when he died.. Console me not to be sad.. I really dun understand why a healthy person can just pass away like that..
So, my dear frenz, pls visit your grandparents whenever you can.. You nv know when they will leave us!!
I remember, My grandfather dotes me the most when he is alive.. Whenever, I go and visit him, he will wake up early in the morning and go to the wet market to buy ingredients to cook my favourite dishes.. And, talk to me like a fren with regards to my studies, work and everything.. I cant stop thinking about the love he showered me.. Everything happens too quickly.. Till now, I cant accept the fact that he has left us.. =(
Now, my tears is rolling and rolling... I remember when I was young like 4yrs old.. My grandfather used to bring me out on the weekends and will piggy back me on his shoulders.. PLay cards wid me during my school holis when in pri sch.. Encourage me to study well in sec sch and poly.. He nv fails to cheer me up and advise me when I wanted to choose a wrong path when I was young.. He nv gave me up even thou I am rebellious and notorious at times... He always tells me"Do what you tink that ur conscience will nv feel guilty, den everything will be right!!" I remember wad he says and will always remember..
"GongGong, I hope you rest well and may peace be wid you!!" You will always be remembered by all of us in the family and yours words of advise will always be wid me.. I will pass your advise to my children and my grandchildren, and my great grandchildren... And, I will always tell them I hab a very very great grandfather that dotes me most among all his grandchildren!!
Michelle blogged on Monday, November 17, 2008
@ 3:56 PM
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